To be selfish like the brain, the heart and the pen #napowrimo2024

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NAPOWRIMO 2024 Day 5

To be selfish,
Like how the brain does,
Is to write perfectly,
Speckless from errors,
Perfect forms and execution.
Flawless,

To be selfish,
Like how the heart does,
Is to write freely,
Passionate and intense,
Let them feel how it felt,
Thrilling,

To be selfish,
Like how the hand does,
Is to write thoroughly,
To tell everything,
Let everyone knows wholly,
Unapologetic.


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Therapy is a journey to be a better you

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NAPOWRIMO 2024 Day 4

An hour a week,
Vulnerable and weak,
A whole hour to speak,
All truth and no slick,
Trauma hurts like a prick,
Build the present with stones and sticks,
Seize the future, ready the bricks,
Take all the time to heal – no sick,
It is a lifelong journey, you’ll kick –
The old you, without a single trick,
Be the better you without the need to bootlick.


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Her eyes spoke to me #napowrimo24


NAPOWRIMO 2024 Day 3

Her eyes speaks to me in a language I’m not familiar but I can totally understand through the dilation of her pupils and her blinking counts. In a soft yet precise and straightforward signal, I understand it well. Without a single tear flowing down her cheek. It was clear as the blue sky of March that day her eyes spoke to me,

Her eyes said in the softest and respectful tone: “Enough. You did more than enough. I can never reciprocate your love. No matter how much you’re willing to give. Enough.”

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Moving with the groove in a bachata #napowrimo2024

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NAPOWRIMO 2024 Day 2

I still remember my first time,
Counting the steps,
One, two, three, tap,
And failed miserably,

My knees wasn’t bent,
My shoes stuck flat on the floor,
My eyes followed too,
Yet, I feel like stepping in the dark,

Slowly, I learn to love you,
Even when I can’t move my hand well,
I’m stuck with the same moves,
I didn’t have the confidence in me,

I don’t remember how,
I started to enjoy the music,
My legs move on its own,
And my hand enjoys it too,

Now, I might not be as good as others yet,
But I am way better,
Because I couldn’t get enough,
Moving with the groove in a bachata.


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A poem to all the poets that are afraid to be creative and free in their words

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Could you believe it, it’s that time again,
Every poet, writhe in blood and pain,
Squeezing their brain hard, including their heart,
To assemble words, then tear them apart,

NAPOWRIMO is here, join us all, dear,
Don’t listen to them, their words like a spear,
Telling you to do this and to do that,
Everything has forms, like a snobbish brat,

Poetry has forms and freedom as well,
It will never dry, it’s not an old well,
It is not a cage of syllables, rhymes,
Free forms, no rhymes, short lines, those are not crimes,

Oh, pardon me, I’m rhyming too much here,
And quatrains with four stanzas to adhere,
Let us poets write, we know what is right,
Come! Pen our words, that is our fight.


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It is a love story of two souls #napowrimo2024

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NAPOWRIMO 2024 DAY 1

It is a love story of two souls,
Young and stubborn,
Witnessed by the city of Baku,
Shaped by the differences in culture and faith,
Challenged by the time of war,
Oh, how beautiful!

A beautiful illusion,
Leaving me delusion,
Wishing for my own collusion,
With a different outcome and conclusion,

Maybe it is just a dream and fantasy,
Or maybe it is still an unknown destiny.


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The Ocean #napowrimo24

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NAPOWRIMO Day 0 prompt

The ocean,
Vast, blue, limitless,
Like a horizon painted the white canvas,
It made me nervous,
The sky can be the kindest,
Until it shy and turn the wildest,
No one would believe,
When they say the waves,
Can be violent and tall,
Like a hill ready to fall,

The ocean,
Can be calm yet can be crazy,
Beautiful but can get ugly,
On the surface, that is,
Wait until you learn,
About what lurks,
Under the ocean.


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Ally’s Thoughts: Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

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Daily writing prompt
Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

Hi friends and readers!

How are you? Another interesting question for the daily prompt and I can’t help myself but to chip in my thoughts. Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

I believe after going through my training as a certified life coach and my previous encounters with many people. I can say for sure what made them unique in my opinion.

Before we talk about the aspect that they have, let’s reflect on ourselves first. How often does we look at someone and apply our own bias? We will also judge them as in first impression as well. It’s nothing wrong because that’s how our brain are trained to protect ourselves. What matters is how would you react to that information and how would you treat that person.

Personally for me, I do have my own bias and being judgmental. However, I don’t act upon it. So this is for me, the aspect that makes a person unique, from my perspective.

I accept their strengths and weaknesses without comparing them to other people.

I believe everyone is unique. It’s depend on how you define uniqueness. For me, someone’s strengths and weaknesses are their uniqueness. They don’t need to be compared to someone else. They have gone through a lot of experience that shapes them the way they are.

I had this conversation with a peer asking what do I think of her. She have the tendency to compare herself with others. I said that, you are who you are. There’s no one else in this world like you. It’s not fair to compare yourself to others because they didn’t go through the same life experience as yours. While they might have the qualities that you don’t posses and you want them, take your time to build that quality instead of just comparing. That is because you also don’t know the journey that they had to go through to get that quality.

In a way, for me, being unique is also about being authentic to one’s self. It’s like, yes, you may meet a lot more new people in the future but you’ll never meet someone like me. Simply because I am one of a kind.

What do you think?


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Ally’s Thoughts: What’s something most people don’t understand? Different perspectives

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Daily writing prompt
What’s something most people don’t understand?

Hey friends and readers,

I feel like joining today’s prompt because it’s something that is close to my work in a sense. Being a life coach and a peer support, encountering different ideals and perspective is totally normal. Everyone has their own belief system and in a way there should be mutual respect. However, not everyone would agree and think in the same way.

What’s something most people don’t understand?

The existence of different perspective. The example I can share is about how we see struggle. For some people, struggle is necessary. For some people, it doesn’t have to. Let’s say we want to achieve something like completing a degree. Of course we have to go through a lot of things like courseworks, tests and navigating university life. This is where it gets interesting for me.

For some people, they see going through all those as a struggle. It’s not wrong and it’s just how we want to view it. In a different perspective, we can view it as a challenges that helps to shape a person’s identity. Back to the point, there are different perspective on how we can see things in life. Not everythings has to be on the extreme end of each other.

It’s like seeing life in black and white where the world is actually filled with different colors. I think one of the lesson I want to share is that be open to new perspectives. It’s fine if we don’t agree as long as there is a firm understanding and mutual respect. Definitely there will be tolerance in between,

Maybe that’s just me, what about you?


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Of a poet quest for perfection

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Searching for the perfect words,
To write down as a memory,
Not even the words knows it’s worth,
Until a writer lay it down the harmony,

All the seconds tick away,
Squeezing every cells in the brain,
To create a line to play,
Leaving a maestro empty and drained,

Maybe this the typical cycle,
Of a poet quest for perfection.


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